Tuesday, December 21, 2010

The Delivery

Erica and I woke up in the morning of December 21st 2010 and headed to baptist hospital at 6:45 for our scheduled induction. We had to schedule an induction 10 days prior to the due date in order to get the timing right with her blood thinner, which is a whole other story. We were in the waiting room for 2 hours because there were no available beds in labor and delivery. I was impatient, but Erica was just excited. Once we got a room Erica got all hooked up on monitors and they started giving her pitosen to induce contractions by about 10 a.m. After about an hour, the Dr. Breniman broke Erica's water and said it should increase her contractions. It worked, and within about four hours Erica was ready for her epidural. It took two anesthesiologists three tries to get the epidural in, but it did the trick. Not long after that Erica called me (I was in the waiting room updating family members) and told me that the nurse felt Bear's elbow. Did I mention that his nickname is bear? I'll tell you more about that later as well.

 Anyway, baby's don't come out elbows first, so she called the doctor. Dr. Breniman said he was going to try pinching bear's fingers and hoped that he would pull his hand back. He sat down and took a look and said, "well, that isn't going to work." Before I had time to ask him why not, I saw the problem...fingers? Bear had his arm so far down the birth canal that the doctor was shaking his hand. The nurses thought it was the coolest thing they had ever seen and were lining up to shake hands with my son. Erica was not amused. She knew this meant C-section and wasn't looking forward to major abdominal surgery.

After that things started happening very fast. The nurse threw me some scrubs and by the time I had changed and called a few family members they were ready to take Erica to the OR. I sat in a chair and talked to her during the operation (luckily she already had an epidural).  It was an incredibly graphic display that I may never forget, but it wasn't long before they where wheeling Erica back down the hall with our son in her arms. His first activity was nursing, and his second was meeting his big sister.


Thursday, September 02, 2010

It's a boy!


due December 31st

Monday, May 31, 2010

Norah's Dance Recital

Norah had her first Dance Recital Last week. We weren't allowed to bring cameras to the recital, but I did manage to get video of the dress rehearsal. I think I've watched it about 20 times. You only have to watch it once. Norah is on the far right.

Wednesday, April 07, 2010

Easter Season

Norah speaks little of Easter Bunnies, but she loved the "Easter Ponies." She road a pony for the first time at the Clinton Museum. She also found eggs, make a necklace and played games. But picking flowers to give away was her favorite activity, after the Easter Ponies of course.

Malika, Norah, Carl, Erica and Finley at the Clinton Museum Easter Egg Hunt (notice the boy standing on Dad's head. oops!)






We went to a Helicopter Egg Drop. Unfortunatley we were 2 minutes late, so Norah did not find any eggs. But a couple of the older kids gave her eggs, and then we went out for ice cream!





On Easter, we had a huge egg hunt in our backyard. We painted eggs and stuffed plastic ones, making up for the previous less bountiful hunts. Then we had lunch with the Vinsons. What a Easter. Fin said I went a bit overboard, calling it "Easter Christmas."
Perhaps, but the best part of the Season was a Maunday Thursday service we attended at church. That plus nightly family Bible time really grounded the season for us. The fun time with family was icing.


Thursday, February 25, 2010

A snapshot

I am preparing for a dear friend's shower. It's been emotional; it took me two trips to the store Target to decide what to buy. You see, our babies would have been born within a month of each other. I heard from another sweet friend, who recenlty found out their baby no longer has a heartbeat. And another friend is getting her 20 week ultrasound this week, a healthy baby after a string of miscarriages. I pray blessings on all of them!

Friday, February 19, 2010

Testing

We sent our first test to California yesterday! I was so nervous all day, nervous about starting the process and about the possible pain from the procedure. Well, the biopsy wasn't bad, but it was rough after for a few hours. On Monday, we go and do all the blood draws, 3 for Fin and about 35 for me; I know what to expect there so I'm not as nervous. Results coming soon . . .

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Snow Days

Norah and I got out today, after 2 days at home because of the snow. On the way home from a difficult lunch at Chick-fil-A (I was "the" mom leaving with a screaming child), we had this conversation:

Norah: Mommy, do you like me?
Erica: (thinking this was a heart issue, I emphatically answered) Yes, Norah. I do. I like you so, So, So much!
Norah: Good. (said with a blase voice) I like snow! It's crunchy!

I love that girl!

Thursday, January 21, 2010

We've made contact


I heard from the Beer Clinic yesterday; they have all my medical record and my online registration. They are going to review my files in 3 - 4 days and get back to me with the tests needed. It begins!

I read this in his book yesterday, "In fact, Dr Beer has found that women wiht one liveborn child followed by a history of infertility, IVF failure or miscarriage have the highest incidnece of autoimmune disorders. Comprising just a small fraction of all his patients, the unfortunate group has the most difficult immunoligical challenges to overcome in order to achieve a pregnancy."

Needless to say, I wasn't encouraged. But later, God lovingly reminded me that biological children are not our only option. Whatever we discover through these tests, we will be moving into something exciting because it's what God is doing. I have never know so much peace and joy at not getting my perfect way, and let me tell you, I like getting my way! I rejoice that perhaps I am growing in these area! He is very good to me.

Monday, January 11, 2010

MTHFR then what?

Finley and I haven't been secretive about the miscarriages we've had after Norah, 4 in 2 years. We have gone through tests, prayed, gone to adoption Bible studies, and done foster care training. And here we are, trying to decide what to do next.
After all the tests, we know that I have a mild case of PCOS and 1 MTHFR C677t gene mutation. People with two copies of the gene mutation cannot break down folic acid, utilize B vitamins, and can get blood clots (in pregnancy, the blood clots can be in the placenta, killing the baby). I only have one copy, and lots of people do just great with one copy. But my miscarriage pattern (we've lost 2 babies after seeing the heartbeat) seems to be pointing to something immunoligical like this.
We are beyond the expertise of any doctors we know of in Arkansas. So, we have decided to become long-distance patients of the Alan E. Beer Clinic in California and finish our foster care paperwork. As a research facility, The Beer Clinic does some "cutting-edge" tests and treatments that aren't standared. We are going to get the remaining tests, see about the cost of treatment, and pray.
So I am currently peaceful. I am praying that we will be a part of what God is doing, whether through a miracle baby, foster care or adoption.